After 6 decades of praying, I’ve developed an awareness that the Lord honors and values our prayers far more than we do. Considering prayer, I often think about my adult children. They often call me merely to check and see how I’m doing. No matter what time they call, if I’m able I answer the phone.
As they approached adulthood, I attempted to make them my friends. It is impossible to express what their friendship and consideration for my well-being means to me. I don’t always like or agree with their needs or desires. Yet, I’m going to listen, give advice if they ask for it and help whenever possible.
Being a human, I can hardly imagine the great heart of God as he listens to our prayers. Whether complaints, concerns, petitions or intercession, God desires to pour into our lives his blessings of grace and mercy. Therefore, I cannot ever imagine a time that the Lord will say “No” to a plea that comes from the needs and concerns of one of his children.
However, I’m convinced the Lord always responses, “I’m not going to give you what you desire. In my wisdom, I know that this is not my best for your life. I’m going to give you something much better.”
James wrote that we have not because we ask not. That implies to me that God is far more eager to answer our prayers than we are to pray.
Should our prayer life be thoughtful and reasoned? Of course. Should we desire God’s best for our family and friends? Absolutely. Should we be concerned that this bountiful, loving God will withhold from us any good thing? Never. Can we trust him to honor and answer each prayer with the same mercy and grace that poured from Calvary into a world lost in sin? Yes, with certain assurance.